{"id":2207,"date":"2017-11-10T14:18:47","date_gmt":"2017-11-10T13:18:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/?p=2207"},"modified":"2017-11-10T14:18:47","modified_gmt":"2017-11-10T13:18:47","slug":"nie-badz-helikopterem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/nie-badz-helikopterem\/","title":{"rendered":"Nie b\u0105d\u017a helikopterem"},"content":{"rendered":"

Od jakiego\u015b czasu obserwuj\u0119 niebezpieczny trend u moich dzieciatych znajomych, a mianowicie helikopterowe wychowanie. Polega ono na ci\u0105g\u0142ym kontrolowaniu swojego dziecka, pr\u00f3bach uchronienia go przed ca\u0142ym z\u0142em tego \u015bwiata i ogromnej ilo\u015bci nadopieku\u0144czo\u015bci. Zreszt\u0105 wida\u0107 to nie tylko u znajomych, ale te\u017c u obcych rodzic\u00f3w na placu zabaw czy w przedszkolu. Obserwuj\u0105c to, zastanawiam, si\u0119 co z tych ich pociech wyro\u015bnie.<\/p>\n

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Rodzic-helikopter to ten, kt\u00f3ry biega za swoim dzieciakiem po ca\u0142ym placu zabaw i chroni go na ka\u017cdym kroku: podczas zje\u017cd\u017cania ze zje\u017cd\u017calni, na hu\u015btawkach, a na drabinki to absolutnie nie pozwala wej\u015b\u0107, bo na pewno maluch sobie co\u015b zrobi. To nic, \u017ce z tych drabinek jest jaki\u015b metr odleg\u0142o\u015bci do ziemi.<\/p>\n

Ale bycie helikopterem objawia si\u0119 nie tylko nadmiern\u0105 opieku\u0144czo\u015bci\u0105 i ostro\u017cno\u015bci\u0105, wyra\u017can\u0105 w ci\u0105g\u0142ym \u201enie rusz\u201d, \u201enie biegaj\u201d, \u201enie dotykaj\u201d. Drug\u0105 stron\u0105 tego medalu jest kontrolowanie ka\u017cdego aspektu \u017cycia malucha ju\u017c od najm\u0142odszych lat, zaraz po tym jak wyro\u015bnie z pieluszek<\/a> czy pampers\u00f3w<\/a>. W tym momencie zaczyna si\u0119 \u201eprojekt dziecko\u201d, czyli milion zaj\u0119\u0107 dodatkowych: sporty, gra na instrumencie, obowi\u0105zkowo j\u0119zyk obcy S\u0142owem wszystko to, co mo\u017ce si\u0119 przyda\u0107 w doros\u0142ym \u017cyciu i da latoro\u015bli przewag\u0119 nad innymi.<\/p>\n

Jaki jest tego efekt? A no taki, \u017ce ju\u017c na etapie kilkulatka dzieciaki s\u0105 przeci\u0105\u017cone, przygn\u0119bione, a do tego zal\u0119knione i zestresowane. Ponadto nie maj\u0105 poj\u0119cia o tym co lubi\u0105, czego nie lub\u0105, czego chc\u0105, a czego nie chc\u0105. Taki maluch nie potrafi odpowiedzie\u0107 na zdane pytanie dotycz\u0105ce jego osoby, bo albo zaraz mama za niego odpowiada, albo on wr\u0119cz wyczekuj\u0105co czeka a\u017c rodzi\u0107 go w tym wyr\u0119czy. Bo przecie\u017c ono nie wie. Ale sk\u0105d ma wiedzie\u0107, skoro za niego wszystko wiedz\u0105 jego rodzice, kt\u00f3rzy dyryguj\u0105 ca\u0142ym jego planem dnia, decyduj\u0105 co zje, gdzie p\u00f3jdzie, z kim si\u0119 spotka.<\/p>\n

Strasznie smutno si\u0119 na to patrzy, bo \u0142atwo sobie wyobrazi\u0107, co z takich dzieci wyro\u015bnie \u2013 cz\u0142owiek zale\u017cny, niepotrafi\u0105cy podj\u0105\u0107 w\u0142asnych decyzji, wiecznie na garnuszku rodzic\u00f3w, bez w\u0142asnych zainteresowa\u0144 i pomys\u0142\u00f3w na \u017cycie, a do tego z depresj\u0105 i nerwic\u0105. Rodzice, opanujcie si\u0119 i dajcie swoim dzieciom \u017cy\u0107 i to \u017cycie poznawa\u0107, bez tego nie wykszta\u0142cicie w nich tak potrzebnej samodzielno\u015b\u0107 i niezale\u017cno\u015bci. Na nic zdadz\u0105 si\u0119 im te j\u0119zyki, czarny pas w judo, czy umiej\u0119tno\u015b\u0107 grania na skrzypcach, jak nie b\u0119d\u0105 potrafi\u0142y tego wykorzysta\u0107. No chyba, \u017ce zale\u017cy wam na tym, \u017ceby wychowa\u0107 30-latka czy 30-latk\u0119, kt\u00f3rzy nie wiedz\u0105, o co im w\u017cyciu chodzi i z ka\u017cdym problemem przybiegn\u0105 do was, a najprawdopodobniej jeszcze z wami mieszkaj\u0105.<\/p>\n

W takich momentach patrz\u0119 na swoj\u0105 krn\u0105brn\u0105 2-latk\u0119 i dzi\u0119kuj\u0119 Bogu, \u017ce ma to swoje zdanie, cho\u0107 bywa to uci\u0105\u017cliwe. Ale mimo wszystko staram si\u0119 wspiera\u0107 ju\u017c teraz t\u0105 jej samodzielno\u015b\u0107 i niezale\u017cno\u015b\u0107, bo wiem, \u017ce to zaprocentuje w jej doros\u0142ym \u017cyciu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Od jakiego\u015b czasu obserwuj\u0119 niebezpieczny trend u moich dzieciatych znajomych, a mianowicie helikopterowe wychowanie. Polega ono na ci\u0105g\u0142ym kontrolowaniu swojego dziecka, pr\u00f3bach uchronienia go przed ca\u0142ym z\u0142em tego \u015bwiata i ogromnej ilo\u015bci nadopieku\u0144czo\u015bci. Zreszt\u0105 wida\u0107 to nie tylko u znajomych, ale te\u017c u obcych rodzic\u00f3w […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2208,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[95,42],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nNie b\u0105d\u017a helikopterem<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Misja Tata - blog dla rodzica\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/nie-badz-helikopterem\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"pl_PL\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Nie b\u0105d\u017a helikopterem\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Misja Tata - blog dla rodzica\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/nie-badz-helikopterem\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Misja Tata - blog dla rodzica\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2017-11-10T13:18:47+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/120422-F-GY326-179.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"3505\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"2331\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Tata\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minuty\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/#organization\",\"name\":\"Simed\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/\",\"sameAs\":[],\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/#logo\",\"inLanguage\":\"pl-PL\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/simed-logo.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/simed-logo.png\",\"width\":230,\"height\":75,\"caption\":\"Simed\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/#logo\"}},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.simed.pl\/blog\/\",\"name\":\"Misja Tata - blog dla rodzica\",\"description\":\"Nikt nie jest tak na sto procent przygotowany na bycie rodzicem. 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